OCHS brings new best friends to local families, and we want your new dog to thrive. We’ve seen hundreds of human/animal bonds form, and we think it’s important to help new guardians understand how to build a loving, lifetime bond from the outset.
Shelter dogs are different. Each dog is an individual, but every shelter dog has been through at least two enormous transitions: from their original home to the shelter, and from the shelter to their new adoptive home. Moving around, losing their old routine, meeting new people with new expectations, is stressful. So, our first and most basic advice: It’ll take some time.
For the first few days, your dog needs time to decompress more than anything. A safe, quiet environment with their immediate family supports their transition. Your calm demeanor also reassures them. Establish a routine of feeding, sleeping, playing, and potty breaks. As much as you might want to share your pride in your new family member, this is not yet the time to ask your new dog to visit the dog park or be introduced to lots of people.
After a few days, your dog will become more comfortable. Perhaps their tail will wag, or they will just begin to accept the food you provide. They may become confident enough to test your rules. A consistent routine builds their sense of belonging, confidence, and trust. You can encourage desired behaviors using positive reinforcement,1 treats, a favorite toy, praise. At this point, it’s time to expose them to a slightly bigger world. Gradually introduce them to your dog-friendly friends and to other household pets. Take them on neighborhood walks, always keeping them secure on a leash with a well-fitted harness.
As the first few months go by, your dog will come to understand that they are home at last, and a more relaxed and outgoing new family member will emerge. There will be setbacks, but don’t be discouraged. If you’re trying to move more quickly than your dog is ready for, revisit some of what you’ve been doing in previous weeks. Don’t hesitate to reach out for support, whether from shelter staff or professional positive-reinforcement trainers, to keep any undesired behavior from escalating. The patience and dedication you show in early days will be richly rewarded through the lifelong bond you develop with your new best friend.
- Suggested reading on Positive Training:
The Power of Positive Dog Training by Pat Miller
The Other End of the Leash by Patricia McConnell
These have both been around a while but offer practical ideas in reader friendly format. - No harness stops all pulling on leash but a quality, correctly fitted harness with a front clip, along with consistent training, can lessen pulling. There are many options on the market, look for: quality stitching, comfort (especially under legs), adjustable, front and back clips allow options. Ask for assistance in a reliable pet store or trainer so you get a good fit for your dog.